Recent years alot of peope told me i look pretty. Some said i look like eurasian, some said indian, some said like beauty pageant, some told me i look like HK start Li Shan Shan and some even said Gigi Leung!

Wow.. i resemble so many stars huh! When i go to customers place, i found more and more people started to notice my existence...

The 'lift uncle' asked my name...

The security guard told me i look sweet, and told me most man wish to have a girlfriend who looks like me... said i look gorgeous and friendly bla bla bla...Everytime i pass by he'll smile and greets me!!

There was once when i was waiting for a cab, an ang mo alighted from a cab told me "You are beautiful"

Then there is this guy (a contractor at subct) came chit-chating with me when i was doing work.. so annoying

So many people told me i look beautiful, but my hubby never tell me this. He will say i beautiful only when i ask him "why u never say i look pretty?'.. Sad right? Hubby, if u read this, pls take note. I really hope one day you can compliment me without me requesting. really.. i really hope this day will come.

When i was choosing wedding gowns, hubby never praise me at all... hubby why u like tat har??? I believe other people's husband will praise their wife like nobody business when they see their wife in wedding gown...

Posted by auglia at 12:45 AM JST

Updated: Thursday, 4 October 2007 12:50 AM JST

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These few weeks busy with wedding preparations. Mum want me to go back BP more often so that i can assist her to prepare for wedding thingy. Mum helped alot. She very concerned about my wedding; as this is the first wedding in our family :)

Dad and mum bought me all the necessary things such as basket, zi xun tong jewelleries, bedsheets, 'xi' stickers etc....

Mum can't sleep at night when she starts to think of my wedding preparation.. she is so stress up and worry that there are still alot of things yet to be done. Haiz, so paiseh. She has to do all for me and i didn't help much. Is my wedding!! And my mum do most of the things for me... thanks mum!

I engage BP printer to print the BP wedding cards and SG wedding cards inserts. SG inserts cost abt RM65... BP wedding card cost $1.20 each (inclusive of the emboss envelope).

We collected our wedding photos. Those staffs at Printemp compliments me; two said i look like Gigi Leong another said i look like HK actress Li Shan Shan. So paiseh :p

Goh Yee said i look like Chen Li Chen, and other aunties said i look great in all the wedding photos. Agus looks good too :) Overall i like the photos very much.

I've chosen wedding gowns for actual day. Lion (the coordinator) told me if i want to change wedding gown (after i selected the gowns), i;ll need to pay additional $$.. where got such things! They are out to cheap people's money!

Anyway, i kena cheated of our $$ again. I can't succum to temptation again... bought 2 bears (wearing chinese wedding costumes) for car deco...

I borrowed BK's car as our bridal car....

Posted by auglia at 12:03 AM JST

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Mood:  surprised

Went to Queenstown shopping center and bought a pair of sneakers @ $69. Is the similar model as what eileen bought the other day. She bought her sneakers @ $90++.

Then we went to ikea and bought 2 planks and a mirror. We intend to diy our dressing table. We will be fixing a plank on top of our TV console for me to put decorative items :p 

Posted by auglia at 7:20 PM JST

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Mood:  down

Today im on mc... down with sore throat and flu. Im phsically very tired. Going to take a nap after blogging.

Lets start from yesterday. Our new Palladine LCD tv came. It looks cool and blend into our living room well.

At nite, we met up with a freelance photographer to take a look at his work. I found the pictures taken are normal, not much variation in the photo eg: playing with dept-of-field, different angle focus etc. Tonite we will be meeting up with another freelance photographer to view his work.

Something personal. I feel upset by an incident yesterday. I was sick. And i requested for a cup of ginseng tea. When sick, i hope to get more attention and TLC. But what i got was very upsetting.
He sounds frustrated when i request for a cup of tea. I dunno why? I did so many things for him.. cooking, washing etc etc Is it too much to request for a cup of tea? What is the use of verbal promises to take care of me? Actions speaks louder than words. If such small request is so difficult to be fullfilled, do you think taking care of me till my hair turns grey is possible?

During sembawang days, when i was sick, hubby will visit me and i remembered there was once he came to visit me after work. Together with him, he brought some food stuff (eg: cereal etc) for me. Im so touched. All these are still vividly imprinted at the back of my mind.

But things seems to be different now. Going thru courtship is the sweetest moments in my life.

Posted by auglia at 2:19 PM JST

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Here they chatting again... i dunno what is there to chat about? Everyday they must call each other.. if not msn.. Compared to his good friend.. i feel that im less fortunate. Hubby talk less to me.. we seems so far... nothing much to talk about. Unlike them, they can talk about office politics, business and other this and that... i guess im at fault too.. cos sometime i really feel tired talking.. i rather keep quiet. Cos i feel that whatever i say is not taken into consideration. He seems to doubt and don't accept my ideas. I guess he thinks that my idea are illogical and doesn't make sense. I don't wish this to happen but it happens.. and i don't know how to prevent this from happening again...

I really dont like to see the way hubby talk to him... outsiders might think he is talking to the opposite sex! Funny rite? Sometimes i think why his good friend's wife can tolerate their such " intimate " relationship... i must really say she has a big heart and is a really good wife.. too bad i'm not like her... I know i shoud not interfere with his friendship. Im being selfish. sometimes i think without him around.. hubby and me will definitely lead a happy and lovely life. I know i shouldnt say such things but ... i dunno....

I dunno why, i feel that there is such invible wall in between us... making me feel so far from him. Yesterday when i read those email hubbby wrote for me during courtship... so sweet and romantic... luckily i keep all these emails... at least when i feel upset i can open up those email and read it... perhaps i won't be receiving such email from him anymore... no more..

But one thing worth mentioning here.. hubby starts to stay here more often after much complains... if he really goes vietnam for business, we'll have less time together.. tat's why he stay more often here now to keep me company.. thanks so much!

Maybe we should take this opportunity to cool down... distance is not always a bad thing i guess.. maybe it can help to bring us closer.. who knows rite..

i shall stop here... sis needs access to computer... and i need to prepare for lunch soon... till then.

Posted by auglia at 12:43 PM JST

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Theres not much interesting event happening these couple of days.

We got ourselves a 26" Paladin TV (made in Spore), my wife & family got 2 bicycles for their daily usage. Storing their bike is an issue but not worth mentioning here.

Some issues with our HCMC venture as it seems we are facing some early competition there, that might make our venture difficult.

Ya. tomorrow 19-03-07 is gown chosing day.

Posted by auglia at 12:09 PM JST

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Well this issue will address the issue of house.

Firstly the house was gotten because my other half is staying at a very poor place where there are smell of cat faeces, no sofa, poor ventilation and having to pay rental monthly. So we got this new place for her to stay, as she doesnt like to stay at my place and it is inconvenient too cos my bro need his space too.

Why I am seldom there because there are too many people there, I feel awkward with so many people around. I dont have my own space. But I am happy that my other half can live happily (althought I can do much about the mosquito).

Another reason I  never move yet is because I think its obvious for all to see that i have some unspoken family issues here and its better that I can stay behind till things get better.

Leaving at a bad time? Well its tought to find a right time. Yes I agress this is a very bad time but honestly I think its difficult to find an appropriate time. There will be the wife, the baby, the old parents etc etc.

I would love to have my other half join my if possible to travel the world and face all challenges together :) Hopefully in a couple of years we wont have to stay in this rat race.

Posted by auglia at 11:16 PM JST

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Hubby borrowed a book on NewZealand for me.. Here's what i gathered so far..

The weather in NZ is unpredicted. It can be cold not and hot later. So need to prepare different type of clothing to suit different weather.

Beware of sandfiles when at beach. Remember to apply insect repellant when going to beaches. If ever bitten by sandfiles, don't scratch for 30 minutes the itching will go away. There is a legend behind these sandflies..The god who created Fiordland were so pleased with their work that they sat down to relax and admire it. Seeing this the goddess of life and death created sandflies to goad them to work.

Maori tribe greet people by pressing noses.

NZlanders love sports especially rugby. All Blacks is the country's national rugby team.

Horse-racing is a particular passion and many towns and communities have a racetrack just outside town.

Kiwi is the name of national bird. It's also widely used to describe Nlanders. In money markets it's also nickname for NZ dollar. And American used it as an abbreviation for kiwifruit. Nzlanders would not call kiwifruit in this way...

toilet break...

Posted by auglia at 7:46 AM JST

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Togetherness is important.. phsically together is also important. This is true especially for couple that is about to enter to the next stage of life. The foundation is important to built a lasting relationship.

Occasionally hubby will put over at our new place. whenever i ask him when he wants to move over he gave excuses. And this time if he were to leave for good, then there isn't a chance to stay together at all.. do you think this is healthy to the relationship?

Posted by auglia at 6:20 AM JST

Updated: Sunday, 11 March 2007 2:37 PM JST

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